I would think the lists would be different for different families (and yes, tent or rv differences).
For my family or list is:
1) Firewood
2) matches and lighter
3) tent
4) water containers (as there is fresh water where we camp)
5) blankets, sleeping bags, pillows--all bedding stuff--I'm not cheap on this--like to be comfortable.

6) Food
7) bug spray

cooking supplies
9)flashlights/lanterns
10) toys, activities, games for kids
That's my list--but if you ask my boyfriend--I bring everything but the kitchen sink.
